Hey guys,
With the end of the semester, I got crazy busy and decided to wait until break to finish up the secrets. I hope you all have had a good semester and are still considering study abroad. Here are the answers to the rest of the secrets I received.
-I'm afraid I will miss out on the lives of my friends and family back home.
I can absolutely understand this fear, and you're not alone. This is one of the reasons I only went for 2 months. The truth is, the time flies by and you will have so many adventures that you won't think about things back home as often as you expected. When you do get homesick, because of course it is inevitable, Skyping with your family and friends will help a lot. Really though, not a whole lot happens around here and you will not regret your time away no matter what happens. I would, however, suggest avoiding going away when someone in your family is about to get married, have a baby, or other big life events like that which have been planned out ahead of time. Just do some planning and you will be glad you went, I promise.
-My fear are the weird bugs overseas.
In my experience, I had no problem with any strange insects or diseases from them. I also went during the winter in Argentina. You can either plan to go during a time where there will not be a huge risk of bugs, or you can go to places like Germany and other countries in Europe that do not have a problem with disease carrying insects that will infect you. Doing some Google searches will help to alleviate your fears about the insects.
-Not being able to find food that I actually eat.
Just like in the US, other countries have plenty of choices for food. I am a vegetarian and so my choices are even limited here, BUT when you sign up for housing there is a section that asks if you have any special meal preferences and you will be placed accordingly. If you are still worried about finding food that you would like, do some research on what each country typically eats and if there are more "American" foods readily available there. Just choose which one fits your meal preferences the best and you will not be disappointed.
-I'm afraid that I would find myself somewhere where no one speaks English or Spanish and I would be completely lost.
Depending on where you choose, the majority of people will speak English. It has become the most universal language of the world, you just have to do some investigating. An example is that in general countries in Europe are going to speak more English than countries in South America or Africa or places like that. Julie Beall-Marshall has traveled quite a bit and I'm sure she would be happy to tell you which countries are more English-speaking that way you can avoid the whole conflict altogether.
-I'm afraid that I will not fit in with the culture I would be studying.
One of the amazing things about people is that we adapt fairly easily. When you go to another country, the beautiful thing is that you don't have to fit in. As long as you're respectful of others' cultures and practices, they will be respectful of yours. Learning from each other is one of the things that makes studying abroad so very interesting and fun. You will adapt to survive without even knowing you're doing it and you will find abilities you never even knew you had. There will be other American students there and the program directors and professors in the universities are accustomed to American students. They will teach you the first week what is offensive and what is acceptable.
-Handicap accessibility through towns in Europe or other countries.
I have to admit that I have never considered this fear before, but after giving this question careful thought I have decided to tell you not to let this fear get in your way. There are people all over the world that are handicapped, so you have the option of asking for a family that has experience with handicaps. The family will know where you will be able to go and they will assist you in any way you need special attention. They will be understanding and accommodating and they will make sure you have the best experience of your life.
-Bureaucracy, the "red tape" involved in the application process of study abroad frustrates me.
Yes, there are quite a few steps involved with studying abroad. That does not mean the experience is not WORTH it, though. Anything worth doing is not going to be easy, and the majority of the application to study abroad is just filling in your basic information. You will have to pay an application fee and you will have to write a short letter about why you want to study abroad, but all in all once you've checked everything off the list that you need to do, there is nothing like that feeling of preparing for a trip and all the excitement of the weeks right before you leave. Once you get done with the application process, as much of a drag that it is, you will forget all about it and be so excited you won't know what to do with yourself.
-Conflict between China and Taiwan.
As much as I've said it here, I cannot say it enough: host families know how to deal with pretty much any conflict you will experience. These people live there, and they are on your side too! They are there to support you and help you in any way they can. If it were absolutely too dangerous or unstable, study abroad programs would never let American students go there. Rely on your host family and others that live there to deal with the country-specific issues that exist.
Now, fellow students, these are all of the secrets I have received. I have done my best to answer your concerns in accordance with my experience and I hope I have helped some of you. If you have any other questions, PLEASE don't hesitate to contact me via e-mail: allie.white28@gmail.com OR you can leave a comment below and I will answer it. Above all, I'd like you to know that you have all the tools you need to go to a foreign country, you just don't know it yet. If you put yourself out there, I have no doubt that you will have the time of your life and you will come back a new and better person. Good luck to all of you in your endeavors and remember to use your resources. Take care!
Allie
Thursday, December 27, 2012
Thursday, October 25, 2012
Post Secret-Study Abroad Edition 1
I have decided that instead of sending 30+ emails addressing all of your fears, I will post them on here. This will help in several ways: 1. You will all be able to see others' fears that maybe you have not thought about and my answers to them. 2. You will be answered quicker, especially since some of the fears were the same. 3. You now know about my blog and can read through it and learn more than I can say in this one blog post.
I have promised you that I would try to answer your concerns to the best of my ability and that I will do. If, for some reason, I cannot answer them, I will direct you to resources and people that can. Deal?
Now let's answer some secrets!
-Being able to pay for study abroad.
This is an extremely common concern, and one that I struggled with myself. Until recently, my mom had been single my entire life and paying for school in general is difficult. What I ended up doing was applying for every scholarship I could find (there are specific ones for study abroad!), working 2 jobs and saving money, and using loans to finance my trip. Scholarships are a fantastic way to finance your study abroad and you can find so much helpful information and links on the study abroad website. Here's a link!
-How to relate it to my major.
My major was Spanish so it was not difficult for me to relate mine, obviously. Without knowing your major it is difficult for me to answer this question. I also am not as well informed on what kinds of classes are offered as the study abroad advisor is. I would love to direct you to Ms. Julie Beall-Marshall who is an absolutely wonderful resource and is full of all kinds of knowledge about study abroad.
-I'm worried about being dropped somewhere that I don't know anyone/ I am scared that I won't meet people that I mesh with quickly enough while abroad.
I was worried too! I am a girl that is scared of meeting new people, going anywhere alone, and especially making friends. I promise you that there are other people in the exact same situation and since no one knows anyone, you become close friends quickly. Some of the best people I've ever met live in Buenos Aires and I am still in contact with them months later and hope to be for the rest of my life. It is absolutely worth it to put yourself out of your comfort zone. You can do it!
-I fear that I may not understand the language and get lost/I'm so afraid I'm going to get lost.
You know what? Even knowing the language, you will get lost. You will get lost and be scared, and then you will realize that you have to suck it up and find your way. You will learn where NOT to go, which turns NOT to take, and you will discover that you are a lot better at navigating than you thought. You will come back with a better sense of confidence than you ever had and you will be thankful that you got lost and proud that you "found" yourself. People are also a lot nicer than you think and they will be happy to help you if you will only just ask.
-What if I get bored? How exactly do I spend my time abroad?
Well first, I can tell you that a lot of your time is spent in school. BUT! The study abroad programs also have fun excursions and events and all kinds of lists of things to do in your free time. The excursions were included in my program fee and I learned a lot from them. It was also nice because they were led by someone who knows the area well so I did not have to worry about finding my way. No matter where you go, there is always a lot to see and places to go and people to meet. Also, I found a park near my house and if I got bored I'd go running, which is not something I generally had time for at home since I work and go to school.
-Not getting to see all I want to see.
This is a very accurate fear and I understand this completely because I was only gone for 2 months. At the beginning I wasn't sure I could even be gone for that long, and now that I came back I wish I had stayed longer. My best advice for this is to go for at least a semester, if not a year. If you do not have room in your schedule for that, you can always go back and visit the friends you made there..which is what I'm going to do.
-The language barrier.
Good news! There are programs in primarily english speaking countries. If languages do not interest you or you have never had time to fit them into your schedule, you don't have to choose an extremely foreign country. There are also many countries that speak english as well as their native language and there will be signs in english. Speak with Julie Beall-Marshall in the study abroad office or click here and follow the links on the right side to learn more.
-Not being able to come back home when I get there.
You will absolutely be able to come back home, the question really is if you will want to. If you end up not wanting to come back, then don't. My personal belief is that if something is supposed to happen and you feel like you are drawn to do it, what is there to stop you except yourself? You can and SHOULD make it happen.
-I'm scared my host family will kill me.
Host families are screened very thoroughly by the programs before they are allowed to take foreigners into their home. My host mom was the most understanding and sweetest person and we got along well. Most everyone I talked to had a very similar experience because the programs do a great job of finding the right fit for you. If you are still afraid, you may opt to stay in a dorm or apartment with other American students.
-I fear that currency rates would make things really expensive.
Depending on where you are wanting to go, this may or may not happen. My best advice is to research several places you'd like to go, look up currency rates, and decide if it is worth it. I opted for Argentina instead of Spain because the exchange rate was better and the daily living costs were less. If you are set on a place that has high currency rates, try to save as much money as you can and try not to buy too many snacks or things you don't need while you're there.
-Are there other SIUe/American students there too?
YES! I met people that were in my program and went to my school from all over the country and really enjoyed comparing our lives in each of our states. There are also faculty led programs that include groups of SIUe students being taught by an SIUe professor. I would point you in the direction of Julie Beall-Marshall in the study abroad office for more information about these programs.
-A civil war will break out and I will be stuck in the country.
There are American Embassies all over the world whose job it is to keep you safe while you are out of the country. If there is ever an issue with the government or an invasion or anything like that, make sure you register that you are going out of the country and give them contact information and they will make sure you get home safely.
-I'm scared I'll be kidnapped like in Taken.
Many students fear for their safety when thinking about going out of the country. The key is that you have to be SMART about your choices, just like you hopefully are here, but more so. If I remember correctly, the girls in Taken randomly met some guy and decided to tell him exactly where they were staying and that they were alone. I feel like these girls were ASKING to be taken. You also have to keep in mind that this is a movie and they are trying to create excitement and anxiety, therefore they exaggerate and make it seem worse than it really is. That being said, you have to be careful where you go and who you go there with. Never invite someone in when you're alone, never go out late at night by yourself, never carry your passport around with you, never wander the streets drunkenly talking to strangers....just use common sense and you will not be taken.
I have promised you that I would try to answer your concerns to the best of my ability and that I will do. If, for some reason, I cannot answer them, I will direct you to resources and people that can. Deal?
Now let's answer some secrets!
-Being able to pay for study abroad.
This is an extremely common concern, and one that I struggled with myself. Until recently, my mom had been single my entire life and paying for school in general is difficult. What I ended up doing was applying for every scholarship I could find (there are specific ones for study abroad!), working 2 jobs and saving money, and using loans to finance my trip. Scholarships are a fantastic way to finance your study abroad and you can find so much helpful information and links on the study abroad website. Here's a link!
-How to relate it to my major.
My major was Spanish so it was not difficult for me to relate mine, obviously. Without knowing your major it is difficult for me to answer this question. I also am not as well informed on what kinds of classes are offered as the study abroad advisor is. I would love to direct you to Ms. Julie Beall-Marshall who is an absolutely wonderful resource and is full of all kinds of knowledge about study abroad.
-I'm worried about being dropped somewhere that I don't know anyone/ I am scared that I won't meet people that I mesh with quickly enough while abroad.
I was worried too! I am a girl that is scared of meeting new people, going anywhere alone, and especially making friends. I promise you that there are other people in the exact same situation and since no one knows anyone, you become close friends quickly. Some of the best people I've ever met live in Buenos Aires and I am still in contact with them months later and hope to be for the rest of my life. It is absolutely worth it to put yourself out of your comfort zone. You can do it!
-I fear that I may not understand the language and get lost/I'm so afraid I'm going to get lost.
You know what? Even knowing the language, you will get lost. You will get lost and be scared, and then you will realize that you have to suck it up and find your way. You will learn where NOT to go, which turns NOT to take, and you will discover that you are a lot better at navigating than you thought. You will come back with a better sense of confidence than you ever had and you will be thankful that you got lost and proud that you "found" yourself. People are also a lot nicer than you think and they will be happy to help you if you will only just ask.
-What if I get bored? How exactly do I spend my time abroad?
Well first, I can tell you that a lot of your time is spent in school. BUT! The study abroad programs also have fun excursions and events and all kinds of lists of things to do in your free time. The excursions were included in my program fee and I learned a lot from them. It was also nice because they were led by someone who knows the area well so I did not have to worry about finding my way. No matter where you go, there is always a lot to see and places to go and people to meet. Also, I found a park near my house and if I got bored I'd go running, which is not something I generally had time for at home since I work and go to school.
-Not getting to see all I want to see.
This is a very accurate fear and I understand this completely because I was only gone for 2 months. At the beginning I wasn't sure I could even be gone for that long, and now that I came back I wish I had stayed longer. My best advice for this is to go for at least a semester, if not a year. If you do not have room in your schedule for that, you can always go back and visit the friends you made there..which is what I'm going to do.
-The language barrier.
Good news! There are programs in primarily english speaking countries. If languages do not interest you or you have never had time to fit them into your schedule, you don't have to choose an extremely foreign country. There are also many countries that speak english as well as their native language and there will be signs in english. Speak with Julie Beall-Marshall in the study abroad office or click here and follow the links on the right side to learn more.
-Not being able to come back home when I get there.
You will absolutely be able to come back home, the question really is if you will want to. If you end up not wanting to come back, then don't. My personal belief is that if something is supposed to happen and you feel like you are drawn to do it, what is there to stop you except yourself? You can and SHOULD make it happen.
-I'm scared my host family will kill me.
Host families are screened very thoroughly by the programs before they are allowed to take foreigners into their home. My host mom was the most understanding and sweetest person and we got along well. Most everyone I talked to had a very similar experience because the programs do a great job of finding the right fit for you. If you are still afraid, you may opt to stay in a dorm or apartment with other American students.
-I fear that currency rates would make things really expensive.
Depending on where you are wanting to go, this may or may not happen. My best advice is to research several places you'd like to go, look up currency rates, and decide if it is worth it. I opted for Argentina instead of Spain because the exchange rate was better and the daily living costs were less. If you are set on a place that has high currency rates, try to save as much money as you can and try not to buy too many snacks or things you don't need while you're there.
-Are there other SIUe/American students there too?
YES! I met people that were in my program and went to my school from all over the country and really enjoyed comparing our lives in each of our states. There are also faculty led programs that include groups of SIUe students being taught by an SIUe professor. I would point you in the direction of Julie Beall-Marshall in the study abroad office for more information about these programs.
-A civil war will break out and I will be stuck in the country.
There are American Embassies all over the world whose job it is to keep you safe while you are out of the country. If there is ever an issue with the government or an invasion or anything like that, make sure you register that you are going out of the country and give them contact information and they will make sure you get home safely.
-I'm scared I'll be kidnapped like in Taken.
Many students fear for their safety when thinking about going out of the country. The key is that you have to be SMART about your choices, just like you hopefully are here, but more so. If I remember correctly, the girls in Taken randomly met some guy and decided to tell him exactly where they were staying and that they were alone. I feel like these girls were ASKING to be taken. You also have to keep in mind that this is a movie and they are trying to create excitement and anxiety, therefore they exaggerate and make it seem worse than it really is. That being said, you have to be careful where you go and who you go there with. Never invite someone in when you're alone, never go out late at night by yourself, never carry your passport around with you, never wander the streets drunkenly talking to strangers....just use common sense and you will not be taken.
Thursday, October 4, 2012
Study Abroad Speech
Hey guys! I decided to post another blog because I've realized that my study abroad experience still has not ended even though the trip is over. Today I gave a speech to freshman students in a music 111 class at school about studying abroad. I could not believe how much excitement and interest there was from the students! They genuinely were thinking about studying abroad..which just made me all the more excited about my experience and the study abroad fair that is coming up on Oct 16th. I hope there will be students that come to my booth and make Post Secrets about study abroad. I don't want my service project to be a big flop :/ (That's a hint for anyone reading to come to my booth and make some secrets!)
I miss Argentina and my friends there, I miss speaking Spanish every day, and I even miss all the dog poop that was on the sidewalks because that meant that I could see so many cute little dogs every day. Originally there was a time when I thought, " what if I don't even end up happy that I did this?" Now I just want to laugh at myself for even thinking that. I had an amazing experience and I have changed so much for the better from it. GO STUDY ABROAD!!!! :)
xoxoxo
Allie
I miss Argentina and my friends there, I miss speaking Spanish every day, and I even miss all the dog poop that was on the sidewalks because that meant that I could see so many cute little dogs every day. Originally there was a time when I thought, " what if I don't even end up happy that I did this?" Now I just want to laugh at myself for even thinking that. I had an amazing experience and I have changed so much for the better from it. GO STUDY ABROAD!!!! :)
xoxoxo
Allie
Friday, July 27, 2012
Home?
I have decided to post just one last time to conclude my study abroad blog. This is going to be a blog of reflection and I feel like I should warn you ahead of time that it might get a little mushy.
After many hours of travel, I finally made it back to the states and back to Illinois. I'm not sure what I was expecting..but what I experienced wasn't it. Maybe 2 months isn't a long time in the grand scheme of things, however I feel like a changed person and I guess I expected everyone else to have changed as well.
I found out quickly that people, good or bad, were exactly the same. I also expected things to be so much easier, and they were not. For example, I found myself speaking english, but at the same time thinking random words in spanish and barely catching myself before saying them out loud. So it actually took me longer to speak in english at first since I had to go back and translate the word from spanish to english. So very complicated! Also, I was so excited to drive again..only to get home and find out that my battery in my car had completely died and I will have to pay $160 for a new one if I want to drive again. I looked to public transportation in the meantime, but had no idea where to begin..where the bus stops are, where they take me, how to carry everything from WalMart that I needed to buy again..It was like I had to start all over!
On the other hand, I was very glad to see familiar faces. Andrew gave me the biggest hug ever and it made me feel very welcomed..Dexter went crazy of course..Beef had no idea what to think..and my family gave me sweet hugs as well and were all happy to see me.
Reverse culture shock really does exist..you find yourself comparing everything all over again and wondering if it is you or everything else that has changed. It is confusing and an adventure, but that is part of the fun (and the addiction) of travel.
I will conclude this blog by thanking each and every one of you that have been keeping up with my adventures and misfortunes this summer and for all the encouragement that was sent my way. I could not have done it without you! Hopefully this blog has served some kind of purpose, if not only to help me remember that crazy summer I once spent in Argentina.
Cuidate!--take care!
xoxoxo
Allie
After many hours of travel, I finally made it back to the states and back to Illinois. I'm not sure what I was expecting..but what I experienced wasn't it. Maybe 2 months isn't a long time in the grand scheme of things, however I feel like a changed person and I guess I expected everyone else to have changed as well.
I found out quickly that people, good or bad, were exactly the same. I also expected things to be so much easier, and they were not. For example, I found myself speaking english, but at the same time thinking random words in spanish and barely catching myself before saying them out loud. So it actually took me longer to speak in english at first since I had to go back and translate the word from spanish to english. So very complicated! Also, I was so excited to drive again..only to get home and find out that my battery in my car had completely died and I will have to pay $160 for a new one if I want to drive again. I looked to public transportation in the meantime, but had no idea where to begin..where the bus stops are, where they take me, how to carry everything from WalMart that I needed to buy again..It was like I had to start all over!
On the other hand, I was very glad to see familiar faces. Andrew gave me the biggest hug ever and it made me feel very welcomed..Dexter went crazy of course..Beef had no idea what to think..and my family gave me sweet hugs as well and were all happy to see me.
Reverse culture shock really does exist..you find yourself comparing everything all over again and wondering if it is you or everything else that has changed. It is confusing and an adventure, but that is part of the fun (and the addiction) of travel.
I will conclude this blog by thanking each and every one of you that have been keeping up with my adventures and misfortunes this summer and for all the encouragement that was sent my way. I could not have done it without you! Hopefully this blog has served some kind of purpose, if not only to help me remember that crazy summer I once spent in Argentina.
Cuidate!--take care!
xoxoxo
Allie
Saturday, July 14, 2012
Wow..
Time flies. I thought I knew the meaning of that expression but I definitely didn't. It is now after midnight and although I went out last night and only got like 3 hours of sleep in total, I am still unable to fall asleep. Every day it gets closer to my flight home and every day I want time to slow down. There are still so many things I want to do here and so many people I want to spend more time with. Don't get me wrong, I absolutely can't wait to be home and see my family, friends, and Andrew. I can't wait to drive again and stop being lost all the time, to have my own food in the fridge and do my own laundry. I can't wait to lay out and get tan and go swimming in the heat. I can't wait to straighten my hair again! I even can't wait to go to Walmart and Shop N Save and Old Navy. I can't wait to hug everyone and tell them all about my time here. I can't wait to be back at work again and see all my friends there.
In spite of all of these things I'm excited to do, I still cry when I think about saying goodbye to Beatriz (my mom here), all my friends from class, the random people from all over the world that I've met while going out, the amazing Argentine friends I've made that I only speak spanish with. Even the portero (doorman) that I say hi to every day and who always asks me if I'm cold and laughs when I say no. I'm going to miss seeing thousands of dogs every day and laughing at them pooping on the sidewalk. I'm going to miss having a hard boiled egg and gluten free toast and tea for breakfast every day. I'm going to miss having dinner and wine with Beatriz every night and the crazy amount of pumpkin and dulce de leche I have consumed. I'm even going to miss going out at 11pm and staying out until 2 pm the next day and never EVER getting enough sleep.
My experience here has been absolutely incredible and equally indescribable. I seriously hope I never forget the times I've had here and the people I've met. I know I have to come back and visit someday and I will. This week holds a presentation, tons of homework, a written exam, and an oral exam for me. Then Friday I leave to go home. Wow. That's all I can say.
xoxox
allie
In spite of all of these things I'm excited to do, I still cry when I think about saying goodbye to Beatriz (my mom here), all my friends from class, the random people from all over the world that I've met while going out, the amazing Argentine friends I've made that I only speak spanish with. Even the portero (doorman) that I say hi to every day and who always asks me if I'm cold and laughs when I say no. I'm going to miss seeing thousands of dogs every day and laughing at them pooping on the sidewalk. I'm going to miss having a hard boiled egg and gluten free toast and tea for breakfast every day. I'm going to miss having dinner and wine with Beatriz every night and the crazy amount of pumpkin and dulce de leche I have consumed. I'm even going to miss going out at 11pm and staying out until 2 pm the next day and never EVER getting enough sleep.
My experience here has been absolutely incredible and equally indescribable. I seriously hope I never forget the times I've had here and the people I've met. I know I have to come back and visit someday and I will. This week holds a presentation, tons of homework, a written exam, and an oral exam for me. Then Friday I leave to go home. Wow. That's all I can say.
xoxox
allie
Saturday, July 7, 2012
Less than 2 weeks!
Yesterday marked the month and a half period that I've been here, meaning I officially today have less than 2 weeks left in Buenos. Luckily today was around 50 degrees and sunny, so I went running and doubled my distance. It felt really great!
This past week I celebrated 4th of July with a pub crawl and met a bunch of new people. There were people from here, England, Columbia, the US, and so many more places. It was entertaining because you never know who speaks english and who doesn't, so I just spoke spanish to everyone only to find out 5 minutes into the conversation that the person was from the US. Monday is Argentina's Independence day so we get the day off from school and there's another pub crawl going on. Some people get really drunk and some people don't drink at all but it's a good time meeting people and walking around in a giant group no matter what your level of intoxication :)
Later on today I'll be going to the Recoleta market to check out some interesting touristy things and just to be outside since it is so gorgeous. I have no idea how I'm going to handle the 100+ degree weather back home when I'm so used to wearing jeans, a coat, and scarves but I'm sure I'll be happy to be in the sun again since most days here are so gray and it is a big deal when the sun comes out.
Next week I'm planning on going on a graffiti tour with some friends from school and also to this amazing zoo where you can actually pet lions and tigers..I could not be more excited!! Pictures to come, of course :)
Did anyone get to watch fireworks or were they all cancelled because of the drought? I hope you all have a great weekend and I'll see you very soon!
chau!
xoxo
Allie
This past week I celebrated 4th of July with a pub crawl and met a bunch of new people. There were people from here, England, Columbia, the US, and so many more places. It was entertaining because you never know who speaks english and who doesn't, so I just spoke spanish to everyone only to find out 5 minutes into the conversation that the person was from the US. Monday is Argentina's Independence day so we get the day off from school and there's another pub crawl going on. Some people get really drunk and some people don't drink at all but it's a good time meeting people and walking around in a giant group no matter what your level of intoxication :)
Later on today I'll be going to the Recoleta market to check out some interesting touristy things and just to be outside since it is so gorgeous. I have no idea how I'm going to handle the 100+ degree weather back home when I'm so used to wearing jeans, a coat, and scarves but I'm sure I'll be happy to be in the sun again since most days here are so gray and it is a big deal when the sun comes out.
Next week I'm planning on going on a graffiti tour with some friends from school and also to this amazing zoo where you can actually pet lions and tigers..I could not be more excited!! Pictures to come, of course :)
Did anyone get to watch fireworks or were they all cancelled because of the drought? I hope you all have a great weekend and I'll see you very soon!
chau!
xoxo
Allie
Monday, July 2, 2012
La Iglesia
The good news: I finally found a non-catholic church here in Buenos!
The bad news: I only have 2 more Sundays left here.
It is absolutely incredible to pray in another language and to hear people worship in another language and be able to understand it. I mean, you know that God is everywhere always, but it is unbelievable to actually experience it for yourself. Before Sunday, I guess I kind of imagined God was just in my head and heart here and He was everywhere because He was always with me. I was so very wrong and I am so very glad for it. In a country where the clubs don't really get going until 3am, you do not expect to have such an experience as I did yesterday. There were the nicest people singing and praising and I could understand more or less everything that was going on. I even recognized the songs that they sung. If anyone is planning on studying abroad here and would like to attend a protestant church, please let me know! It takes about an hour to get there from my apartment in Belgrano, but that's only because public transportation takes about 5 times longer than normal transportation. However, it is SO worth it :D I'll definitely be going back the next 2 Sundays. It is so powerful.
So lately I've been feeding my spiritual self with prayer and church, my intellectual self with spanish, and my physical self with running. Needless to say, things are going well. I can't believe it's already July and I only have 2 more weeks here. I'm really going to miss this place and all its challenges. Nothing like feeling nostalgic at the end of studying abroad...I'd love to come back and visit my host mom someday though, because she is such a kind soul and I can't imagine never seeing her again. This week I'll be doing homework and studying for my midterm on Friday and hopefully running although today's weather was super cold and completely gray. Let's pray for nice weather my last 2 weeks before I return to the inferno that is Illinois right now!
Happy July!
xoxoxo
Allie
The bad news: I only have 2 more Sundays left here.
It is absolutely incredible to pray in another language and to hear people worship in another language and be able to understand it. I mean, you know that God is everywhere always, but it is unbelievable to actually experience it for yourself. Before Sunday, I guess I kind of imagined God was just in my head and heart here and He was everywhere because He was always with me. I was so very wrong and I am so very glad for it. In a country where the clubs don't really get going until 3am, you do not expect to have such an experience as I did yesterday. There were the nicest people singing and praising and I could understand more or less everything that was going on. I even recognized the songs that they sung. If anyone is planning on studying abroad here and would like to attend a protestant church, please let me know! It takes about an hour to get there from my apartment in Belgrano, but that's only because public transportation takes about 5 times longer than normal transportation. However, it is SO worth it :D I'll definitely be going back the next 2 Sundays. It is so powerful.
So lately I've been feeding my spiritual self with prayer and church, my intellectual self with spanish, and my physical self with running. Needless to say, things are going well. I can't believe it's already July and I only have 2 more weeks here. I'm really going to miss this place and all its challenges. Nothing like feeling nostalgic at the end of studying abroad...I'd love to come back and visit my host mom someday though, because she is such a kind soul and I can't imagine never seeing her again. This week I'll be doing homework and studying for my midterm on Friday and hopefully running although today's weather was super cold and completely gray. Let's pray for nice weather my last 2 weeks before I return to the inferno that is Illinois right now!
Happy July!
xoxoxo
Allie
Friday, June 29, 2012
Preparing for the weekend
Hi family and friends!
In class today I had a different teacher and I like her so much better. The way it works is I have one teacher (Yael) three days each week and my other one (Betina) two days. We met Betina today and even though she's really into literature, she is a lot more likable as a person. She earned a masters and doctorate in the US too so she knows her stuff. We are going to have to present stories and write for her, but at least she is understanding and knows about our culture.
Yesterday I got really sick with a cold and couldn't breathe. I woke up a million times over the night to blow my nose and have been sniffling all day. I think it has helped though because I do feel a lot better and I even went for another run today around my lake. It's really nice to get some exercise in, it makes me feel a lot better.
Tonight I am going to see a movie with some Argentine friends that don't speak much english and I am quite excited about it. I seriously miss seeing movies, especially with my Andrew. I'm sure I'll be home soon enough though and we'll get back into our movie watching routine. I talk about home a lot here, but I think that's normal. The other day we had to say 3 things we'd take with us on a desert island and I said I only need my family (Andrew of course is included with family) and nothing else. Being here really makes me appreciate my life back home but I know I'm going to miss it here when I get back.
Posting pictures isn't going very well. My camera has been dead (like always) and I keep forgetting to charge it so I've been using my phone..somehow transferring pictures from my phone to my computer isn't working very well. I keep losing videos that I've taken? I'll try to get some up soon though!
Enjoy the hot weather and eat lots of popsicles for me! Oh and in case I don't blog again in the next few days, Happy 4th of July!!! It's going to be super weird not to see fireworks this year, but I know you will all think of me when you write your names in the air with sparklers (which you have to do since I won't be there to do it myself).
Sending my love from Buenos!
xoxoxo
Allie
In class today I had a different teacher and I like her so much better. The way it works is I have one teacher (Yael) three days each week and my other one (Betina) two days. We met Betina today and even though she's really into literature, she is a lot more likable as a person. She earned a masters and doctorate in the US too so she knows her stuff. We are going to have to present stories and write for her, but at least she is understanding and knows about our culture.
Yesterday I got really sick with a cold and couldn't breathe. I woke up a million times over the night to blow my nose and have been sniffling all day. I think it has helped though because I do feel a lot better and I even went for another run today around my lake. It's really nice to get some exercise in, it makes me feel a lot better.
Tonight I am going to see a movie with some Argentine friends that don't speak much english and I am quite excited about it. I seriously miss seeing movies, especially with my Andrew. I'm sure I'll be home soon enough though and we'll get back into our movie watching routine. I talk about home a lot here, but I think that's normal. The other day we had to say 3 things we'd take with us on a desert island and I said I only need my family (Andrew of course is included with family) and nothing else. Being here really makes me appreciate my life back home but I know I'm going to miss it here when I get back.
Posting pictures isn't going very well. My camera has been dead (like always) and I keep forgetting to charge it so I've been using my phone..somehow transferring pictures from my phone to my computer isn't working very well. I keep losing videos that I've taken? I'll try to get some up soon though!
Enjoy the hot weather and eat lots of popsicles for me! Oh and in case I don't blog again in the next few days, Happy 4th of July!!! It's going to be super weird not to see fireworks this year, but I know you will all think of me when you write your names in the air with sparklers (which you have to do since I won't be there to do it myself).
Sending my love from Buenos!
xoxoxo
Allie
Wednesday, June 27, 2012
Avanzado...
My new class, the advanced one, is insane. I have a ridiculous amount of homework and it's only the first day. Also, we began the class by saying why we chose BsAs and I said because I don't like the accent in Spain. As it turns out, my teacher speaks like she's from Spain. I am forever embarrassing myself here.
On the up side, the weather was actually somewhat nice today and I went for a run around a lake near my apartment. I feel pretty good about it because it took like 25 minutes and I'm used to only running about 10. Maybe soon I'll be able to go around the lake more than once :)
I made some new friends today. I feel bad for the people just now coming here because they look super lost and uncomfortable. I definitely remember feeling that way, and sometimes I still do. Hopefully I can help them out and teach them the ways of Buenos. I also found a new Samantha, although their names are the only thing that is the same about them. The new Samantha is in my class and I don't know if we'll do everything together like I did with Sam, but I think whatever we do will be almost as good anyway and it's nice to have someone to talk to again. (I still miss you Sam!)
Unfortunately my program doesn't have much planned for the month. I got the schedule and I've already done the two things they have planned for us..so it looks like I'll have to have more adventures on my own and/or with my newfound friends!
As always, I'm missing everyone dearly, but I am still making it and growing etc etc. :)
Much love!
xoxoxo
allie
On the up side, the weather was actually somewhat nice today and I went for a run around a lake near my apartment. I feel pretty good about it because it took like 25 minutes and I'm used to only running about 10. Maybe soon I'll be able to go around the lake more than once :)
I made some new friends today. I feel bad for the people just now coming here because they look super lost and uncomfortable. I definitely remember feeling that way, and sometimes I still do. Hopefully I can help them out and teach them the ways of Buenos. I also found a new Samantha, although their names are the only thing that is the same about them. The new Samantha is in my class and I don't know if we'll do everything together like I did with Sam, but I think whatever we do will be almost as good anyway and it's nice to have someone to talk to again. (I still miss you Sam!)
Unfortunately my program doesn't have much planned for the month. I got the schedule and I've already done the two things they have planned for us..so it looks like I'll have to have more adventures on my own and/or with my newfound friends!
As always, I'm missing everyone dearly, but I am still making it and growing etc etc. :)
Much love!
xoxoxo
allie
Sunday, June 24, 2012
Ferias y Regalos
Hello all!
This weekend has been full of trials, as usual, however there have been some very wonderful moments. On Friday, Samantha and I went out with friends and had a good time, although I don't care too much for the club scene here. It's just too loud and too crowded and you don't get to know anyone like you do in a bar or restaurant. My favorite thing when I go out here is meeting people and speaking to them (in Spanish) because it's interesting for everyone and good practice too.
On Saturday, Samantha and I went to Uruguay by boat and spent the day wandering and sightseeing and being tourists. The weather was absolutely beautiful during the day and got a little chilly at night. We were tired from going out and not getting much rest the night before, so we pretty much went to bed when we got home around 10.
Today was the best day of the weekend. We went to a feria where people hand make almost everything and then sell it in little booths. It is a great place to talk to local people and buy amazing and unique things...aka gifts :) So some of you should be expecting a few little surprises when I return. If there is anything specific that anyone wants from here, though go ahead and tell me. There is amazing Dulce de Leche..basically my new addiction..that I will be bringing back for everyone to try. If you have a chance, go to the store and see if you can find it. My heart is going to break if I can't buy it in the states after I get back. Seriously, it's that good.
Andrew and I are going to Skype now..unfortunately we don't get to talk near as much as I'd like. As for this week, tomorrow I don't have school so Sam and I are spending one last day together before she goes back to the US on Tuesday. Also on Tuesday, I start my advanced spanish course promptly at 9:30am and have it every day until 2:30 pm. I'm not sure if the program has anything planned for July yet since I don't have a schedule but I'll keep you updated!
I'm very happy here, but I miss everyone so much too. I hope you're all staying cool and enjoying the pool and getting tan in the sun. It doesn't feel anything like July here, being around 50 degrees and all. Nonetheless, have fun and think of me when you're poolside :)
besos!
xoxox
allie
This weekend has been full of trials, as usual, however there have been some very wonderful moments. On Friday, Samantha and I went out with friends and had a good time, although I don't care too much for the club scene here. It's just too loud and too crowded and you don't get to know anyone like you do in a bar or restaurant. My favorite thing when I go out here is meeting people and speaking to them (in Spanish) because it's interesting for everyone and good practice too.
On Saturday, Samantha and I went to Uruguay by boat and spent the day wandering and sightseeing and being tourists. The weather was absolutely beautiful during the day and got a little chilly at night. We were tired from going out and not getting much rest the night before, so we pretty much went to bed when we got home around 10.
Today was the best day of the weekend. We went to a feria where people hand make almost everything and then sell it in little booths. It is a great place to talk to local people and buy amazing and unique things...aka gifts :) So some of you should be expecting a few little surprises when I return. If there is anything specific that anyone wants from here, though go ahead and tell me. There is amazing Dulce de Leche..basically my new addiction..that I will be bringing back for everyone to try. If you have a chance, go to the store and see if you can find it. My heart is going to break if I can't buy it in the states after I get back. Seriously, it's that good.
Andrew and I are going to Skype now..unfortunately we don't get to talk near as much as I'd like. As for this week, tomorrow I don't have school so Sam and I are spending one last day together before she goes back to the US on Tuesday. Also on Tuesday, I start my advanced spanish course promptly at 9:30am and have it every day until 2:30 pm. I'm not sure if the program has anything planned for July yet since I don't have a schedule but I'll keep you updated!
I'm very happy here, but I miss everyone so much too. I hope you're all staying cool and enjoying the pool and getting tan in the sun. It doesn't feel anything like July here, being around 50 degrees and all. Nonetheless, have fun and think of me when you're poolside :)
besos!
xoxox
allie
Friday, June 22, 2012
Class #1
Yesterday and today were my last 2 days of Intermedio II Spanish here...which means I have officially completed one month of school here! It's extremely crazy to think it has been that long because it is flying by so quickly with so many emotions at once.
Luckily, the weather was absolutely gorgeous today..like 60 degrees and super sunny..aka my favorite. The sun was shining and the leaves were falling off the trees and it was a fantastic day. I ventured out to the Botanical Gardens here for the sole purpose of playing with the kitties that live there. I spent several hours there wandering and looking for and finding kitties to play with. They were kind of shy, but they were kitties and once they knew I wouldn't hurt them, of course they were my best friends.
I sat down on one of the benches at the gardens and this elderly woman started cleaning off the bench I was sitting on so she and her husband could sit without getting dirty. After a few minutes they sat down and began to talk to me. They were absolutely adorable, although fairly difficult to understand. This is what I gathered: he was 84 and she was 75. They had been married for 53 years and had a son that was 43. The man was somewhat out of it because the women told me he was always confused but she loved to take care of him. I asked them if I could take a picture of them and they agreed very willingly. She told him to take his hat off, and a second later to take his glasses off as well. He was very obedient...obviously why they had been married so long ;)
Between the kitties, the elderly lovers, and successfully finding my way to the gardens and back by myself..today was extremely successful. Tonight Samantha and I are going out to dinner and then out to dance with new Ecuadorian and Dutch friends that we met last weekend. It's going to be a blast! I'm definitely ready to celebrate being done with my class :)
I hope everyone isn't burning up at home, although you should be thankful to be tan since SOME of us are paler than pale right now...
xoxo!
allie
Thursday, June 14, 2012
La Plaza de Mayo..y otras cosas
Hola familia y amigos!
Todo bien acá! En realidad..very very good. Today was such a wonderful day and it put me in the best mood. I could probably tackle the world right now..well maybe not the entire world but my little portion of it here in BsAs. I have now learned exactly what it is to "acostumbrarse"..which very simply means to become accustomed to the area or adapt. It is reflexive, which means it reflects back on the subject, like I accommodate myself, or I become myself. I love the verb because it makes me think of putting on a costume and becoming a very real part of the play that is life. I am an actor and I am very literally becoming myself into this city and this culture and this new world. I could not be more grateful for the opportunity to be here and I am so glad that I made it through the first few weeks to find out how amazing Buenos Aires is.
I met some Argentines last week and got to speak with them again today. They are students that attend the same university in the classroom across the hall from me. Incredibly sweet and not very good at english at all. It is wonderful for me to practice so much, although it does require more attention than I've ever given to anything in my life and makes me very mentally drained. BUT! SO worth it.
We also visited La Plaza del Mayo today, which is basically the center of everything: the government, the church, and the bank of Argentina. It is the place where people go to protest because many others are sure to see it there. Every Thursday "las madres del mayo" march around the square to raise awareness and knowledge of los desaparecidos..the disappeared. Long story short, around 1970, the Argentine government decided that it was not going to allow anyone to protest anything or allow the citizens to say a single word against it. They also took between 8,000 and 30,000 people (no one agrees on the number but you know what? even ONE person is too many people) and made them "disappear", later to be found in the nearby river with traces of drugs and evidence of torture. In 2002, a man finally came forward and testified against the government officials, only to "disappear" hours later. This was HUGE. Not only was this evidence that these horrible people continued to stay in power, but also that they were still able and willing to murder innocent citizens. I know this is a HUGE explanation, but it is a very minuscule amount of the history that happened with these people. I hope Argentina never forgets because I know I won't.
While at the plaza, this completely adorable group of children came up to us and started asking us questions in spanish. I could not believe how cute they were. One very brave little girl asked me what is my favorite color. A boy asked me what the colors of the US flag mean..which I couldn't really remember so I made up something about red for blood, white for purity, and the stars for the 50 states. I'm a terrible American! Yet another boy asked me how I was doing and how old I was :)
So it is customary here when you say hello or goodbye to someone, even upon first meeting them, to do kind of a half hug and grab the other person's shoulders, press your cheeks together, and kiss the air. I decided that the girl that asked me about my favorite color definitely deserved an authentic Argentine goodbye from an American (they made me feel like a celebrity) so I gave her a little hug and kiss and said goodbye. I could have put her in my pocket and take her home with me..she smiled so big!
What a GREAT day!!! Now it's around midnight and I probably should finish this blog since it has turned more into a novel now. I just had to tell everyone about this amazing and fantastic place I'm in. I almost don't want to leave...almost ;)
goodnight lovelies!
xoxoxo
Allie
Todo bien acá! En realidad..very very good. Today was such a wonderful day and it put me in the best mood. I could probably tackle the world right now..well maybe not the entire world but my little portion of it here in BsAs. I have now learned exactly what it is to "acostumbrarse"..which very simply means to become accustomed to the area or adapt. It is reflexive, which means it reflects back on the subject, like I accommodate myself, or I become myself. I love the verb because it makes me think of putting on a costume and becoming a very real part of the play that is life. I am an actor and I am very literally becoming myself into this city and this culture and this new world. I could not be more grateful for the opportunity to be here and I am so glad that I made it through the first few weeks to find out how amazing Buenos Aires is.
I met some Argentines last week and got to speak with them again today. They are students that attend the same university in the classroom across the hall from me. Incredibly sweet and not very good at english at all. It is wonderful for me to practice so much, although it does require more attention than I've ever given to anything in my life and makes me very mentally drained. BUT! SO worth it.
We also visited La Plaza del Mayo today, which is basically the center of everything: the government, the church, and the bank of Argentina. It is the place where people go to protest because many others are sure to see it there. Every Thursday "las madres del mayo" march around the square to raise awareness and knowledge of los desaparecidos..the disappeared. Long story short, around 1970, the Argentine government decided that it was not going to allow anyone to protest anything or allow the citizens to say a single word against it. They also took between 8,000 and 30,000 people (no one agrees on the number but you know what? even ONE person is too many people) and made them "disappear", later to be found in the nearby river with traces of drugs and evidence of torture. In 2002, a man finally came forward and testified against the government officials, only to "disappear" hours later. This was HUGE. Not only was this evidence that these horrible people continued to stay in power, but also that they were still able and willing to murder innocent citizens. I know this is a HUGE explanation, but it is a very minuscule amount of the history that happened with these people. I hope Argentina never forgets because I know I won't.
While at the plaza, this completely adorable group of children came up to us and started asking us questions in spanish. I could not believe how cute they were. One very brave little girl asked me what is my favorite color. A boy asked me what the colors of the US flag mean..which I couldn't really remember so I made up something about red for blood, white for purity, and the stars for the 50 states. I'm a terrible American! Yet another boy asked me how I was doing and how old I was :)
So it is customary here when you say hello or goodbye to someone, even upon first meeting them, to do kind of a half hug and grab the other person's shoulders, press your cheeks together, and kiss the air. I decided that the girl that asked me about my favorite color definitely deserved an authentic Argentine goodbye from an American (they made me feel like a celebrity) so I gave her a little hug and kiss and said goodbye. I could have put her in my pocket and take her home with me..she smiled so big!
What a GREAT day!!! Now it's around midnight and I probably should finish this blog since it has turned more into a novel now. I just had to tell everyone about this amazing and fantastic place I'm in. I almost don't want to leave...almost ;)
goodnight lovelies!
xoxoxo
Allie
Tuesday, June 12, 2012
Take 2
This is my second attempt at writing this particular blog...hopefully it works this time..
After this weekend in Iguazú, I feel so much better about everything. I have realized that it doesn't matter which country I'm in, traveling to another one is not going to magically make life perfect. You are still going to trip, get taken advantage of, and embarrass yourself. BUT! Once you learn to get back up, stand up for yourself, and laugh at your embarrassments, life gets a whole lot more comfortable..maybe not easier, but definitely more comfortable. Being in Argentina has put me in situations that I used to always avoid..especially by myself (navigating and using a map, public transportation, not knowing anyone, speaking up in class, etc.) I have officially accepted that things are hard, but I can do it because I am strong and I have amazing family, friends, and a wonderful boyfriend that believe in me.
I found out today that I got a 9 on my midterm...which is equivalent to an A in the US :D I was so happy! Tomorrow I have to tell a love story that is not well-known to the class for my project. Overall, this has been a really awesome class and I think I'm more comfortable in the language now that we've reviewed so much and practiced speaking intensively. My expectations were just so different from reality when I first got here I think I was in shock. Luckily that is gone now.
Today I went with Samantha for moral support while she got tattooed and decided to get a couple of piercings while I was there since piercings are so cheap here. I got my nose pierced and a piercing on part of my ear. I love them so much and I am so glad I did it..I can't wait to see what the fam thinks after I get back!
The first time I wrote this, it was all about the weekend..unfortunately this time I decided to write about random other things...sometimes I just start writing and the subject changes entirely. Maybe that's what blogging is all about? I don't know, I'm pretty much the most amateur blogger ever...like anything else, it takes some getting used to.
xoxoxoxo!
Allie
After this weekend in Iguazú, I feel so much better about everything. I have realized that it doesn't matter which country I'm in, traveling to another one is not going to magically make life perfect. You are still going to trip, get taken advantage of, and embarrass yourself. BUT! Once you learn to get back up, stand up for yourself, and laugh at your embarrassments, life gets a whole lot more comfortable..maybe not easier, but definitely more comfortable. Being in Argentina has put me in situations that I used to always avoid..especially by myself (navigating and using a map, public transportation, not knowing anyone, speaking up in class, etc.) I have officially accepted that things are hard, but I can do it because I am strong and I have amazing family, friends, and a wonderful boyfriend that believe in me.
I found out today that I got a 9 on my midterm...which is equivalent to an A in the US :D I was so happy! Tomorrow I have to tell a love story that is not well-known to the class for my project. Overall, this has been a really awesome class and I think I'm more comfortable in the language now that we've reviewed so much and practiced speaking intensively. My expectations were just so different from reality when I first got here I think I was in shock. Luckily that is gone now.
Today I went with Samantha for moral support while she got tattooed and decided to get a couple of piercings while I was there since piercings are so cheap here. I got my nose pierced and a piercing on part of my ear. I love them so much and I am so glad I did it..I can't wait to see what the fam thinks after I get back!
The first time I wrote this, it was all about the weekend..unfortunately this time I decided to write about random other things...sometimes I just start writing and the subject changes entirely. Maybe that's what blogging is all about? I don't know, I'm pretty much the most amateur blogger ever...like anything else, it takes some getting used to.
xoxoxoxo!
Allie
Thursday, June 7, 2012
Iguazu weekend
Tonight we are leaving for Iguazu falls, which promises to be a very long but beautiful trip. We're traveling overnight and apparently the bus provides us with hot meals and wine with dinner so I'm all for that. The plan is to travel all of tonight and part of tomorrow, arrive at the hotel and swim and go hot tubbing and such, then Saturday take a tour of Iguazu and see how beautiful it is. Sunday we'll be visiting an Aborigine community called Aldea guaraní M'Borore. I'm really ready to go exploring since this week has been 80% schoolwork. Monday I have a midterm too so it's getting intense. This weekend will definitely be fun and I'll be posting pictures of course.
It's around 50 degrees here during the day now, which is nice when the sun's out. Everyone wraps their scarves around their faces and acts like it's -20 below, which is pretty funny. The dogs on the street are still making me very happy, although they also make me miss Dexter and the kitties back home. I'm still not sure if I should pet them or not, so I don't.
It's getting about time to do laundry, considering I have one shirt left after this weekend. I just really don't want to drag my bag of clothes all over the city for little Asian women to wash and dry and fold...I'm going to have to get over it though otherwise I'll start stinking and I definitely don't want that.
I hope everyone is enjoying the warmth back home and still thinking about me often! 6 more weeks :)
xoxoxo besos!
Allie
It's around 50 degrees here during the day now, which is nice when the sun's out. Everyone wraps their scarves around their faces and acts like it's -20 below, which is pretty funny. The dogs on the street are still making me very happy, although they also make me miss Dexter and the kitties back home. I'm still not sure if I should pet them or not, so I don't.
It's getting about time to do laundry, considering I have one shirt left after this weekend. I just really don't want to drag my bag of clothes all over the city for little Asian women to wash and dry and fold...I'm going to have to get over it though otherwise I'll start stinking and I definitely don't want that.
I hope everyone is enjoying the warmth back home and still thinking about me often! 6 more weeks :)
xoxoxo besos!
Allie
Sunday, June 3, 2012
weekend!
This weekend was absolutely wonderful. Of course I got lost a few times, but I had a lot of fun. Friday we went out to a club, the clubs here apparently don't open until 2:30 AM! We danced and took pictures and ordered drinks and stayed out way too late.
Saturday we were all so tired that we slept half the day and then went to el tigre, which is the delta named after the tigers that used to be there but are now extinct. It was a really beautiful day to be on the water even though we were all half asleep :)
After sleeping 15 hours last night and most of today, I woke up well-rested and ready to go. Samantha, Erin, Wambui, and I went to the San Telmo market today. I could not believe how HUGE it was! just the longest street completely full of vendor after vendor selling their handmade crafts. I made friends with Captain Jack Sparrow and gave him a kiss on the cheek. It was so much fun!
Things are looking up now, I've taken the bus several times mostly successfully and used the subte (subway) to get to the market today. The weather has become absolutely beautiful..the sun is out every day and it's just perfect fall weather. It's really funny though because people here think it's extremely cold when it's around 60-65 degrees. They bundle up with scarves and gloves and coats like it's closer to 20 degrees.
I get to see my andyroo tonight and I'm super excited that I'm getting better at navigating this giant city. What a great way to end the weekend :)
xoxo
allie
Saturday we were all so tired that we slept half the day and then went to el tigre, which is the delta named after the tigers that used to be there but are now extinct. It was a really beautiful day to be on the water even though we were all half asleep :)
After sleeping 15 hours last night and most of today, I woke up well-rested and ready to go. Samantha, Erin, Wambui, and I went to the San Telmo market today. I could not believe how HUGE it was! just the longest street completely full of vendor after vendor selling their handmade crafts. I made friends with Captain Jack Sparrow and gave him a kiss on the cheek. It was so much fun!
Things are looking up now, I've taken the bus several times mostly successfully and used the subte (subway) to get to the market today. The weather has become absolutely beautiful..the sun is out every day and it's just perfect fall weather. It's really funny though because people here think it's extremely cold when it's around 60-65 degrees. They bundle up with scarves and gloves and coats like it's closer to 20 degrees.
I get to see my andyroo tonight and I'm super excited that I'm getting better at navigating this giant city. What a great way to end the weekend :)
xoxo
allie
Friday, June 1, 2012
mistakes and challenges
Today was an extremely difficult day. I feel like as soon as I get the hang of this place, another challenge comes along and I fail. I'm constantly embarrassing myself and doing things wrong. Here's how today has gone so far:
I woke up 10 minutes after I was supposed to be at school. Which normally wouldn't be a big deal, but I'm only allowed 2 full days absence and more than 15 minutes late counts as half a day.
I was in such a hurry this morning that I didn't screw the lid to my protein shaker on all the way and luckily it only had water in it because it spilled all over my backpack and the desk at school. Which I didn't even realize had happened until my teacher pointed it out.
On my way home, my protein shaker fell out of my backpack as I was crossing an extremely busy road. While I was trying to get across the street safely, all these cars are honking at me and telling me that I dropped it. I knew I dropped it, but of course I wasn't going to risk my life for it. Drivers are insane here. The light turned green and I stood at the side of the road and watched my shaker get crunched in a million pieces.
Now I've locked myself up in my room because every time I go anywhere I mess things up. The problems and embarrassments that happened today only add to the long list I'm already accumulating including:
Putting yogurt in my tea because I thought it was milk.
Trying to open up two different women's apartments thinking they were mine, only to get scowled and cursed at when they opened the door.
Getting lost....more than once.
Giving the wrong amount of money because I've always struggled with spanish numbers...at least twice so far.
Tripping on the many cracks in the horrible sidewalks here.
Not to mention the 42 hours it took me to arrive since I missed my flight.
And the list is ever growing.
I really hope I get better at this soon. And that I can buy a new protein shaker :(
allie
I woke up 10 minutes after I was supposed to be at school. Which normally wouldn't be a big deal, but I'm only allowed 2 full days absence and more than 15 minutes late counts as half a day.
I was in such a hurry this morning that I didn't screw the lid to my protein shaker on all the way and luckily it only had water in it because it spilled all over my backpack and the desk at school. Which I didn't even realize had happened until my teacher pointed it out.
On my way home, my protein shaker fell out of my backpack as I was crossing an extremely busy road. While I was trying to get across the street safely, all these cars are honking at me and telling me that I dropped it. I knew I dropped it, but of course I wasn't going to risk my life for it. Drivers are insane here. The light turned green and I stood at the side of the road and watched my shaker get crunched in a million pieces.
Now I've locked myself up in my room because every time I go anywhere I mess things up. The problems and embarrassments that happened today only add to the long list I'm already accumulating including:
Putting yogurt in my tea because I thought it was milk.
Trying to open up two different women's apartments thinking they were mine, only to get scowled and cursed at when they opened the door.
Getting lost....more than once.
Giving the wrong amount of money because I've always struggled with spanish numbers...at least twice so far.
Tripping on the many cracks in the horrible sidewalks here.
Not to mention the 42 hours it took me to arrive since I missed my flight.
And the list is ever growing.
I really hope I get better at this soon. And that I can buy a new protein shaker :(
allie
Thursday, May 31, 2012
adventures and school..
I started school on Tuesday. It's kind of strange because I have one teacher for Mon and Tues classes and another one for Wed, Thurs, Fri classes. Luckily they are both very nice, however, sitting still for 5 hours a day doing nothing but spanish takes its toll. We do get a half hour break for lunch, but I really haven't figured out where to go during that break yet.
I have very mixed feelings about living here now. Sometimes I'm very happy to be here and sometimes I ask myself what was I thinking? It is extremely frustrating when I am trying to speak a language that I've devoted so much of my life to, and people still can't understand me. It happens especially with people that don't have much experience with foreigners, like in stores, or when I get lost and want to ask where to go. People here immediately know I'm foreign and want to speak English with me..or think that it would be better to speak even broken english than have me try to speak spanish. I'm constantly tired, and even though I've made friends and I like them a lot, I miss home where things are easy. Everything I try to do here is a challenge, and people make me feel stupid a lot, even if they don't mean to.
On the plus side, I am walking like crazy and I bought tennis shoes today..so I should be able to start running soon and maybe I'll lose some weight. My host mom cooks really healthy food and helps me a lot, but there is only so much she can do.
Last night I went to meet my friends from my program and we drank Mate..which is a lot like tea, but SO much more work. It is a very complicated process involving Yerba leaves, sugar, a special mate cup, a special mate straw (bombilla), and hot water. You have to use 3/4 of the cup to fill with the leaves, and then you get probably about 3 tablespoons worth of Mate. You drink it extremely fast, and it is supposed to help with digestion. I am not sure I understand why someone would go through so much work for just a tiny bit of liquid..but it's definitely a cultural tradition here.
We may go out tonight, if I can figure out how to do it. Wish me luck!
xoxo
Allie
I have very mixed feelings about living here now. Sometimes I'm very happy to be here and sometimes I ask myself what was I thinking? It is extremely frustrating when I am trying to speak a language that I've devoted so much of my life to, and people still can't understand me. It happens especially with people that don't have much experience with foreigners, like in stores, or when I get lost and want to ask where to go. People here immediately know I'm foreign and want to speak English with me..or think that it would be better to speak even broken english than have me try to speak spanish. I'm constantly tired, and even though I've made friends and I like them a lot, I miss home where things are easy. Everything I try to do here is a challenge, and people make me feel stupid a lot, even if they don't mean to.
On the plus side, I am walking like crazy and I bought tennis shoes today..so I should be able to start running soon and maybe I'll lose some weight. My host mom cooks really healthy food and helps me a lot, but there is only so much she can do.
Last night I went to meet my friends from my program and we drank Mate..which is a lot like tea, but SO much more work. It is a very complicated process involving Yerba leaves, sugar, a special mate cup, a special mate straw (bombilla), and hot water. You have to use 3/4 of the cup to fill with the leaves, and then you get probably about 3 tablespoons worth of Mate. You drink it extremely fast, and it is supposed to help with digestion. I am not sure I understand why someone would go through so much work for just a tiny bit of liquid..but it's definitely a cultural tradition here.
We may go out tonight, if I can figure out how to do it. Wish me luck!
xoxo
Allie
Monday, May 28, 2012
Testing, Walking, Shopping
Apparently I must know some Spanish because today I took a placement exam that put me in the second highest level, which is perfect to transfer back home. I'm very excited about it! I start school tomorrow promptly at 9:30 am and I'll be in class until 2:30 pm. I have class M-F and I'm pretty sure my class will be less than 20 people. Hopefully we don't play any dumb "get to know each other" games, but I am excited to meet the people in my class. My roommate Colleen leaves for Bolivia tomorrow until next Tuesday, so I'll be here with Beatriz by myself quite a bit.
I took the "collectivo" (bus) today with Samantha and it was very difficult to stay standing, but a lot better than walking for long distances. I'm going to have to adapt eventually, but for now I'm going to keep walking to school since I save 1,25 pesos and a lot of stress every time I do :)
Beatriz made us soup, personal cheese pizzas, empanadas, and flan for dinner tonight. She's just like a grandma, making sure we eat a lot more than we need to (or probably should) eat. I'm still very sleepy, or maybe sleepy again, but I'll probably go to bed early tonight so that I can get up early. I was almost late to take my exam today because I took too much time eating breakfast.
Tomorrow's Andrew and my 2 year anniversary and although I'm really sad that I'm missing it, I know that seeing him again after this absence will be one of the best moments of our 2 years so far. I can't help but think back on times we've shared together: all the weddings we've attended, birthdays and special holidays we've celebrated, the infinite times we've watched movies, the numerous Netflix tv episodes we've watched and the many seasons we've finished of each show. I feel like the luckiest girl in the world to have this wonderful and unbelievably kind man in my life. I would not have even made it to Argentina without him! When I missed my flight, he answered my call while he was at work and took time to look up a number to call and figured out how to get someone to pick me up from my next flight.
I know I can always turn to Andrew and he is always so strong when I need anything at all. Thinking about him makes my eyes well up with happiness and puts a big smile on my face. There is no doubt in my mind that we will be together for many more years to come and we can make it through anything that comes along. I have to keep remembering that I will see him very soon and to be thankful that we have Skype and the internet to keep us connected :)
Tomorrow will be a very exciting day, my first day of school and our anniversary! I think it will be a great time :)
xoxo
Allie
I took the "collectivo" (bus) today with Samantha and it was very difficult to stay standing, but a lot better than walking for long distances. I'm going to have to adapt eventually, but for now I'm going to keep walking to school since I save 1,25 pesos and a lot of stress every time I do :)
Beatriz made us soup, personal cheese pizzas, empanadas, and flan for dinner tonight. She's just like a grandma, making sure we eat a lot more than we need to (or probably should) eat. I'm still very sleepy, or maybe sleepy again, but I'll probably go to bed early tonight so that I can get up early. I was almost late to take my exam today because I took too much time eating breakfast.
Tomorrow's Andrew and my 2 year anniversary and although I'm really sad that I'm missing it, I know that seeing him again after this absence will be one of the best moments of our 2 years so far. I can't help but think back on times we've shared together: all the weddings we've attended, birthdays and special holidays we've celebrated, the infinite times we've watched movies, the numerous Netflix tv episodes we've watched and the many seasons we've finished of each show. I feel like the luckiest girl in the world to have this wonderful and unbelievably kind man in my life. I would not have even made it to Argentina without him! When I missed my flight, he answered my call while he was at work and took time to look up a number to call and figured out how to get someone to pick me up from my next flight.
I know I can always turn to Andrew and he is always so strong when I need anything at all. Thinking about him makes my eyes well up with happiness and puts a big smile on my face. There is no doubt in my mind that we will be together for many more years to come and we can make it through anything that comes along. I have to keep remembering that I will see him very soon and to be thankful that we have Skype and the internet to keep us connected :)
Tomorrow will be a very exciting day, my first day of school and our anniversary! I think it will be a great time :)
xoxo
Allie
Sunday, May 27, 2012
We are the Men in Black!
Hola!
Today I was supposed to go to the San Telmo market with my friend Samantha, however we both got lost while trying to meet each other and missed each other by a block and about 5 minutes. I guess we were not meant to go today. My apartment mate came home today though! Her name is Colleen and she's really great and extremely helpful. She took Samantha and I to the Chinese neighborhood near our house and I found a great place to eat empanadas, which may just be my favorite thing to eat here so far although it is a little difficult to find vegetarian ones.
Tonight Sam, Colleen, Beatriz (my host mom), and I are going to the movies to see Men in Black 3 and I could not be more excited to see a movie in a foreign country. Here the movies are in the original language and have spanish subtitles. I know it will be a lot of fun :)
Tomorrow I'll take the spanish placement exam. Hopefully I'll be placed in the 300 level because that's what I need to transfer my credits back home. The good thing is that I don't have to wait to see where I'm at so after my test is graded, tomorrow I'll know :)
Off to the show! Ciao!
xoxo
Allie
Today I was supposed to go to the San Telmo market with my friend Samantha, however we both got lost while trying to meet each other and missed each other by a block and about 5 minutes. I guess we were not meant to go today. My apartment mate came home today though! Her name is Colleen and she's really great and extremely helpful. She took Samantha and I to the Chinese neighborhood near our house and I found a great place to eat empanadas, which may just be my favorite thing to eat here so far although it is a little difficult to find vegetarian ones.
Tonight Sam, Colleen, Beatriz (my host mom), and I are going to the movies to see Men in Black 3 and I could not be more excited to see a movie in a foreign country. Here the movies are in the original language and have spanish subtitles. I know it will be a lot of fun :)
Tomorrow I'll take the spanish placement exam. Hopefully I'll be placed in the 300 level because that's what I need to transfer my credits back home. The good thing is that I don't have to wait to see where I'm at so after my test is graded, tomorrow I'll know :)
Off to the show! Ciao!
xoxo
Allie
Saturday, May 26, 2012
El Primer Día!
After over 40 hours of travel, I finally made it to my homestay around 2am Arg time. Long story short, I missed my flight from Sao Paulo, took a later one, and then waited for my bag with this crazy driver man for several hours. He was extremely nice and I felt much better once I saw a friendly face. He did sing me Celine Dion at the top of his voice the entire way to my new apartment though.
I had a really wonderful first day. I got very little sleep, but learned a lot. I started out in my orientation, where I met about 10 other girls that will at least be here until the end of June. I am one of few that will be staying until the end of July. They were all very kind and it was nice to speak some english after making conversation on the bus ride with my host mother Beatriz. I am not sure if she can speak english but she speaks all Spanish to me, which is great since it will force me to get better.
After orientation we had the most wonderful lunch. It turns out it is actually easier to find vegetarian food here than it is in the US. I got to know the girls better during lunch, and then we went on a city tour. There are something like 40 million people in Argentina, and 3 million live in Buenos Aires. It is made up of 54(?) neighborhoods but there are 5 main ones. From north to south they go: Belgrano, Palermo, Recoleta, (centro), Salerno, and then La Boca. The wealth spreads from north to south in this order, with the wealthiest living in the very north and the poorest living in the very south. I took a few pictures today, but I will probably post them later. Right now I think I need a nap :)
I'm really glad I didn't go back home after missing my flight..I kind of wanted to. Now I know I made the right choice :)
xoxo!
Allie
Thursday, May 24, 2012
Canadians & My 10 Hour Layover
I think if I am posted up in an airport in Toronto for 9-10 hours with free internet access and I do not blog about this, I will be extremely upset with myself later. So here I am, melting into the scenery while everyone else scurries about around me. My only saving grace is iMessage, this free Canadian Wifi, and the fact that my chargers work in these outlets.
Here's how my trip is supposed to go, and let me just say for anyone buying an international ticket, it would be worth the extra few hundred not to have these layovers.
STL to Toronto, Canada
Toronto to Sao Paulo, Brazil
Brazil to Buenos Aires
All in all, this will be around a 30 hour trip. DO NOT DO THIS TO YOURSELF! (Just some friendly advice)
Overall the time is going fairly quickly though, and it is a nice break from being in the air. It was so much harder than I thought to say goodbye to my family, friends, and Andrew. I cried off and on through security and for 45 minutes until I boarded my plane. I'm so glad I packed makeup in my carry-on bag so I only look like a somewhat crazy person that now lives in the Toronto International Airport.
Now only 2 more hours until I leave on my 10 hour flight. Hopefully I'll get plenty of sleep and maybe Brazil's airport will be as generous as Canada's has been. It looks like my program, CEA, has plenty planned for me this weekend and next week, but I will absolutely do everything I can to keep everyone updated on how I'm doing there. Luckily I have some wonderful people in my life that sent with me objects and cards to keep me going. Alright I'm going before I tear up again.
Please continue to keep me and my flights in your prayers, most of you know how I'm afraid of the ocean and I'm just a bit preoccupied that my plane will end up at the bottom of it and I'll be eaten by a shark :/ (but of course that won't happen mom!)
xoxo :)
Allie
Here's how my trip is supposed to go, and let me just say for anyone buying an international ticket, it would be worth the extra few hundred not to have these layovers.
STL to Toronto, Canada
Toronto to Sao Paulo, Brazil
Brazil to Buenos Aires
All in all, this will be around a 30 hour trip. DO NOT DO THIS TO YOURSELF! (Just some friendly advice)
Overall the time is going fairly quickly though, and it is a nice break from being in the air. It was so much harder than I thought to say goodbye to my family, friends, and Andrew. I cried off and on through security and for 45 minutes until I boarded my plane. I'm so glad I packed makeup in my carry-on bag so I only look like a somewhat crazy person that now lives in the Toronto International Airport.
Now only 2 more hours until I leave on my 10 hour flight. Hopefully I'll get plenty of sleep and maybe Brazil's airport will be as generous as Canada's has been. It looks like my program, CEA, has plenty planned for me this weekend and next week, but I will absolutely do everything I can to keep everyone updated on how I'm doing there. Luckily I have some wonderful people in my life that sent with me objects and cards to keep me going. Alright I'm going before I tear up again.
Please continue to keep me and my flights in your prayers, most of you know how I'm afraid of the ocean and I'm just a bit preoccupied that my plane will end up at the bottom of it and I'll be eaten by a shark :/ (but of course that won't happen mom!)
xoxo :)
Allie
Tuesday, May 22, 2012
Stressful
From the beginning, I wanted this blog to be an honest description of my thoughts and feelings..so I promise now to be honest and type to anyone that reads this truthfully how the process of studying abroad feels.
So here we go..
I am beginning to think working, packing for this trip, and moving are finally catching up to me. I'm not sleeping well and today I was scared by 3 people by accident. Can you say nervous? Anxious? Scared? Definitely. I said goodbye to my coworkers today and it made me realize now more than ever how soon this trip is approaching. Countdown is now to 2 days. One day for moving and the next my plane takes off at 11:30am.
I know there are so many people praying for me, I just try to remember that when I feel like I'm embarking on this adventure alone. I called my grandma today because of this sudden nostalgic/anxious feeling that has taken over me. We didn't say goodbye, we just said I'll talk to you soon..which will definitely happen. People are bad at goodbyes, myself included.
I know I'm being dramatic. It's only 2 months right? But for never being in a foreign land with foreign money, people, and language for more than 10 days..it seems like a lot longer.
Here's to new adventures :/
<3 allie
So here we go..
I am beginning to think working, packing for this trip, and moving are finally catching up to me. I'm not sleeping well and today I was scared by 3 people by accident. Can you say nervous? Anxious? Scared? Definitely. I said goodbye to my coworkers today and it made me realize now more than ever how soon this trip is approaching. Countdown is now to 2 days. One day for moving and the next my plane takes off at 11:30am.
I know there are so many people praying for me, I just try to remember that when I feel like I'm embarking on this adventure alone. I called my grandma today because of this sudden nostalgic/anxious feeling that has taken over me. We didn't say goodbye, we just said I'll talk to you soon..which will definitely happen. People are bad at goodbyes, myself included.
I know I'm being dramatic. It's only 2 months right? But for never being in a foreign land with foreign money, people, and language for more than 10 days..it seems like a lot longer.
Here's to new adventures :/
<3 allie
Sunday, April 22, 2012
it's been a while...
Okay so I haven't posted in a few months and I feel kind of guilty about it....hopefully I'll be better about it once I leave. The last couple of months regarding the trip have been filled with last minute applications for scholarships like the Gilman, MANY trips to the financial aid office, quite a bit of frustration at the financial aid process, and...oh yeah, my purchase of a round trip plane ticket to ARGENTINA!!!!!!!!!!
So I suppose I am officially going now, huh?
If all goes as planned, I am officially leaving in one month and 2 days. It is the strangest feeling to have planned this for so very long and for it to actually be happening now. It doesn't seem real at all. I'm now starting to consider which clothes I'm going to pack and what supplies I'll need for spanish school. I seriously hope I don't run out of money while I'm there. Not working for 2 months while paying rent in a house I'm not living in and also having adventures in a foreign country sounds like it will cost quite a bit.
I haven't even mentioned that I'm moving, but it's yet another thing that's happening that doesn't feel real to me. This house and my room have really started to feel like home, now I have to pack up everything and move to a new one. I think it will be nice once I finally get settled in a permanent place..although sometimes it's good to have change.
I suppose this whole entry is now one big schizophrenic mess of emotion...which is a pretty accurate description actually.
I'll keep you all updated more regularly as I finish finals and start to pack for the big day....Have a wonderful week!
So I suppose I am officially going now, huh?
If all goes as planned, I am officially leaving in one month and 2 days. It is the strangest feeling to have planned this for so very long and for it to actually be happening now. It doesn't seem real at all. I'm now starting to consider which clothes I'm going to pack and what supplies I'll need for spanish school. I seriously hope I don't run out of money while I'm there. Not working for 2 months while paying rent in a house I'm not living in and also having adventures in a foreign country sounds like it will cost quite a bit.
I haven't even mentioned that I'm moving, but it's yet another thing that's happening that doesn't feel real to me. This house and my room have really started to feel like home, now I have to pack up everything and move to a new one. I think it will be nice once I finally get settled in a permanent place..although sometimes it's good to have change.
I suppose this whole entry is now one big schizophrenic mess of emotion...which is a pretty accurate description actually.
I'll keep you all updated more regularly as I finish finals and start to pack for the big day....Have a wonderful week!
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